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Building Margin into Your Life As a Driven Female Lawyer

January 1, 2024

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Today we’ll delve into a crucial aspect of creating work-life balance – building margin into your schedule as a driven female lawyer. Get ready to explore the significance of creating space in your schedule, what we’ll call “time margin”!

The Trap of Overcommitment

As driven female lawyers, especially those who are mothers, it’s common to fall into the trap of overcommitting time. Fully occupying every minute of every day can lead to burnout, adrenal fatigue, and missing out on unexpected opportunities. The constant cycle of achieving one goal and immediately moving on to the next can hinder acknowledgment and celebration of accomplishments.

The Never-Ending Journey

Acknowledging wins and finding contentment before setting new goals is vital. Actively building time margin into your days, weeks, and months can make the journey more enjoyable. Constantly being in “full sprint mode” may prevent you from feeling like you’ve truly arrived.

Professional Life Tips for Building Margin

1. Meeting Buffer

Consider creating a buffer between meetings and appointments. Instead of back-to-back commitments, allow time for reflection, preparation, and short breaks. Utilize appointment scheduling software to set buffer times.

2. No Meeting Days

Designate specific days for deep work, free from meetings. This block of time allows for focused, uninterrupted work, contributing to increased productivity and well-being.

3. Batch Work

Embrace batch work by grouping similar tasks together. Dedicate specific time blocks for meetings, client work, or administrative tasks. Streamline your workflow and transition between roles more smoothly.

4. Overflow Workday

Designate a day or part of a day with an intentionally open schedule. This allows flexibility to address unfinished tasks, unexpected issues, or last-minute client requests without the pressure of a tightly packed schedule.

Personal Life Tips for Building Margin

1. Uncommitted Family Time

Schedule protected, uncommitted family or personal time. Designate a day, a weekend day, or a portion of a day to remain unplanned, allowing for spontaneous outings or activities.

2. White Space in Mornings

Create white space in your morning routine by waking up earlier. Use this time for personal activities, meditation, or reading, setting a positive tone for the day.

3. White Space in Evenings

Intentionally leave white space in your evening routine before bedtime. Avoid filling this time with tasks and instead focus on relaxation and unwinding. This intentional white space contributes to better sleep and overall well-being.

Conclusion

Remember, the key to work-life balance is intentional planning. By strategically incorporating these pockets of time margin into your schedule, you can embrace new opportunities, handle unexpected challenges, and savor the fulfilling moments that make life truly enjoyable. As ambitious individuals, making the journey more enjoyable is within our control. Join us for our monthly coffee chat to connect with like-minded female lawyers striving for flexibility in their practices. Sign up at www.lawyeronyourterms.com/coffeechat. I look forward to sharing more insights with you in the next episode of Lawyer on Your Terms!

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